There’s no rush to give yourself labels, that’s what I say.
Take your time to find yourself, see what works best with you. Even if it seems futile, don’t stress about it. It’s not worth the worry.
You are who you are. Living, breathing, beyond definition.
At the end of the day, these labels are just words.
And you are so much more than that.
There’s a huge sub-category to genderfluidity, I always kinda saw it like a pie chart, shape and divisions depending on the individual.
I can’t say for others, but for me personally, it depends a lot on occasion. I feel a certain gender towards a certain person, and that makes me more prone to behave in certain ways towards said scenario.
Or rather, I’d be more comfortable behaving accordingly to the gender I feel at said scenario. Instead of having to hide myself.
For example… I feel feminine/neutral with Panda. That’s how I feel towards him, that’s how I’ve always felt towards him. I didn’t change anything to suit him. I’m his girlfriend, that’s just how it is.
Panda understands that I am fluid. And even if I may sometimes go by male pronouns, despite being a heterosexual man who experiences no attraction otherwise, he still loves and cares for me as who I am, though he may only feel sexual attraction towards my feminine side.
(Before Tumblr social justice bloggers goes haywire, I just want to point out that whether you’re straight, gay, bi, pan, all shades of sexualities, you should know the iron-clad feeling of being born the way you are, only feeling attraction for a certain sex. So before you start cishet-shaming, don’t. You’re only making the backlash worse on yourself.)
Aside from the binary, you can also experience sort of a ‘grey area’ - where you feel neither male or female, or maybe both. How they decide to express that identity depends on the individual.
Sorry I got topic a little there, but I wanted to address the issue cause I thought it’d confuse some people. But I hope that gives you a better understanding about how genderfluidity and our relationships work!
Just elephant in the room, never really diagnosed.
Being different doesn’t mean you’re wrong.
I myself am kinda caught up in the whole solipsism belief that everything we see can only be subjective because the only truth we can really proof is the existence of ourselves.
So the whole… yes-no, right-wrong, what is what… I have a hard time understanding. But I know enough to know these labels aren’t that important. You are how you feel, it’s as simple as that.
Nothing right or wrong about it.
Yeah, we sorted it out. I’m cool with it, I know they didn’t intend to steal. It was just a misunderstanding, it happens.
They were very chill about it, apologised, credited, explained the situation and went as far to creating a dA account just to contact me via note to make sure that I got the message.
So I’m pretty happy with the outcome.
Cry’s LP’s of The Wolf Among Us almost looks like a rainbow. *3*
Well, I’ve just sent them a message about it asking them to at least credit me for my art. Hopefully I’ll hear from them soon.
Thank you very much for telling me.
UPDATE: Alright! They’ve decided to co-operate in the end and gave me the credits. Problem solved!
I’m sorry but if you steal artwork from someone you should probably not be allowed to monetize your channel at all.